SEX EDUCATION: Get acquainted with some sexual dialect

It so nice to know that we have quite a huge number of ardent readers of this column and since the ouset of this particular topic, we have received countless calls and SMS from people eager to get more. Today we shall continue from where we stopped. Happy reading. Wet dream: It is also known as nocturnal, night discharge or, emission. It is an involuntary spontaneous discharge or reflex emission of semen during sleep. This accidental semen release is a type of spontaneous orgasm involving either ejaculation during sleep for a male or lubrication of the vagina for a female if she perceives that it resulted in an orgasm. Nocturnal emissions are most common during adolescence and early young adult years, but they may happen any time after puberty. It is possible to wake up during a wet dream or to simply sleep through it. Nocturnal emission or night emission may be accompanied by erotic dreams. The most common seems to be that the body was partly designed for nocturnal emissions because a man needs to ejaculate from time to time even when he is not sexually active. It basically suggests that a body can hold a maximum amount of semen and when this maximum amount is reached, it needs to get rid of it. It is an involuntary natural way of releasing sexual tension unaided. The more a man ejaculates during ‘normal’ sex, the less nocturnal emission he will experience. While libido is the same thing as sexual feelings or drive, sexual fantasy, also called an erotic fantasy, is a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs a person’s sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal. It basically resides entirely in a person’s mind and can be created by the person’s imagination, mental recollection or thought. A fantasy may be triggered autonomously or by any object or medium. For example, it can be created by a long, drawn-out story, such as in erotic literature or pornographic film; by a quick mental flash of sexual imagery, such as a photograph or be due to a sexual attraction to another person or an aspect of that person. Anything that may give rise to a sexual arousal may also produce a sexual fantasy, and sexual arousal may in turn give rise to fantasies. Sexual abstinence also known as sexual restraint is the practice of refraining from some or all aspects of sexual activity for moral, medical, psychological, legal, social, financial, or religious reasons, while celibacy is sexual abstinence generally motivated by factors such as an individual’s personal or religious beliefs. Sodomy simply refers to anal sex. However, the actual dictionary definition includes anything considered “unnatural or deviate sexual intercourse” which may include everything from oral sex to sex between partners of the same gender. Bestiality is sexual activity with animals; a bisexual is a person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both sexes. A lesbian is a homosexual woman. Prostitute is someone whose professional job is to exchange money for sexual favours. Swinging is a consensual sex involving the exchange of marital partners for sexual purposes. Heterosexual is a person who is sexually or romantically attracted only to the opposite sex while homosexual is a person who is sexually or romantically attracted only to the same sex. Incest is sexual intercourse between closely related persons. Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vulva with the mouth while Fellatio is stimulation of the penis with the mouth. Frottage is sexual pleasure from rubbing against another person. Vibrator is an electrically driven machine that vibrates. Dildo is an artificial penis used in sexual activity. Condom is a sheath of latex, plastic, or animal skin worn over the penis to prevent sperm ejaculating into the vagina to guide against pregnancy or the transmission of disease. Dental dam is a piece of latex placed over the vulva during cunnilingus to protect both partners from STDs. Diaphragm is a dome-shaped cap of rubber designed to cover the cervical opening and prevent sperm from entering the cervix. IUD is an intrauterine device, a method of birth control. Let’s look at some abbreviation that couples use when they want to be sexually connected but surrounded by external families, friends and environmental distractions. ATF = all-time favourite. Aunt Flo = menstruation, period. BCD = behind closed doors. Blue pill = natural enhancers. Blue Jay = blow job. CDS = come for doggy style. FBSM = full body sensual massage. FIV = finger in vagina. GSM= g-spot massage. PIV = penis in vagina, ATTEMPTS = trying to orgasm, Cowgirl = CG = girl on top facing you, Doggie = man behind girl, girl on hands and knees, French kiss = Kissing with tongue insertion, LK = light kissing, closed mouth. Missionary = man on top, girl on back, Reverse cowgirl = RCG = girl on top facing away and Lingerie sexy night wears or clothing. Sperm motility is the ability of sperm to move properly through the female reproductive tract and reach the egg. Sperm motility can also be thought of as the quality of sperm that do not “swim” properly will not reach the egg in order to fertilise it, while semen analysis is the test done in the clinical laboratory to determine the quality of the semen. A low sperm count also known medically as oligozoospermia or poor sperm quality is the cause of infertility in about 20 per cent of couples. Premature ejaculation is a condition also known as rapid ejaculation. This is a sexual response problem in which a man consistently feels he has little or no control over the timing of his build-up to ejaculation. Retarded ejaculation also known as delayed ejaculation, is a condition known as ejaculatory incompetence in which a man is unable to ejaculate even though he is highly sexually aroused. We also should know that female does ejaculate. This has sparked controversy among sexuality researchers. There is a body of research documenting that some women expel a fluid from the urethra at the time of orgasm through G-spot stimulation. It has been theorised that this fluid may come from a “female prostate,” rudimentary glands surrounding the urethra whose tissue corresponds to the male prostate gland. In fact, some suggest that the female prostate is the anatomical location of the G-spot. Not all researchers have been able to duplicate the female ejaculatory response in their studies. Not all women experience the ejaculation-like response. Orgasm otherwise known as excitement, swelling, or sexual climax is a feeling of intense sexual pleasure which happens during sexual activity. It’s sometimes called ‘coming’ or ‘climaxing.’It is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension during sexual activities resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterised by sexual pleasure experienced by males and females. So, both men and women have orgasms. What actually happens during intercourse is this, as a man nears orgasm, his pelvic thrusts become less voluntary and muscles of the penis begin to contract rhythmically in order to eject semen from the urethra. So when an orgasm begins, the heart rate, blood pressure and respiration all increase. As a matter of fact, the heart beats faster and the breathing gets quicker and heavier after which a man may not have another orgasm for a little while. This recovery phase, in which the penis and testicles shrink back to their normal size, can last for a few minutes. While in a woman, it is an intense, pleasurable release of sexual tension accompanied by contractions of the genital muscles. A woman may have more than one orgasm if she is continually stimulated. Ironically, it is possible to have a male orgasm without ejaculation. This is true in some pre- adolescent cases in which boys may experience an orgasm without ejaculation.