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Saturday 21 March 2015
8 ways to improve your love life
If you want to get out there and meet
someone so you can start dating again, then
you need to check out these 8 ways to improve
your love life.
Sometimes, being single for so long may make
you think that there's something wrong with you
or that you're unlovable.
Both of these may be untrue, but it could also be
that you're doing something wrong, or you're
stuck in your comfort zone.
If you want to get out there and meet someone
so you can start dating again, then you need to
check out these 8 ways to improve your love life:
. Focus on first impressions: First dates can be
overwhelming, so streamline your focus into
making the first few moments count. It takes
only 12 minutes for you to decide if you are
interested in the other person. To make a stellar
first impression, make eye contact, smile, and
focus on what he/she saying. And don't forget to
check in with your self, too. You might be so
focused on making a flawless first impression
that you forget to ask yourself if you're even
into the person.
. Avoid over-sharing: Verbal diarhhoea happens.
It happens more frequently when you are
super-excited. But one way to kill a first date is to
admit how long you spent stalking him on social
networking sites, or accidentally tell him that he
reminds you of your 'ex'. Oops! Have a censor in
your brain, and learn to filter your thoughts, if
you'd like to avoid these awkward boo-boos on
a first date.
. Listen how you speak: Making eye contact
aside, listen to how you speak to each other. It
is more than just what you are saying -it is how
you say it. One study showed that when men
talk to a woman they find attractive, they tend
to vary their vocal pitch from high to low tones
(almost in a sing-song fashion).
. Let your friends play cupid: No one knows you
quite like your besties do, so let them set you up
with someone that they can vouch for. It is
better for single people to meet through friends
because there is familiarity and comfort that
goes with that. A friend setting you up means
the guy/girl is vetted. Let them play cupid, but
make it clear that the way the date pans out is
not a reflection on your friend, or you, or the
person that you meet. Sometimes, chemistry is
evident, and sometimes it isn't. And while
getting your friends' opinions on the new date is
essential, know that if you ask too soon, it could
colour your own feelings about the potential
match.
. Don't play it cool: We have all heard that guys
love the chase, but according to research, that's
not true. In reality, men are m ore attracted to
responsive women, and those who are kind and
warm straight from the beginning. That doesn't
mean being over-thetop eager and ever-ready-
to-please, but it is fine to respond to that text in
a timely manner, or tell him how much fun you
are having. Being kind is definitely a turn on, so
forget what you've been told about pretending
to be evasive.
. Not into him, move on: Dating someone you
aren't into is a total waste of time, energy and
mind space. Be realistic with yourself: Are you
embarrassed to call him your boyfriend? Has he
met your friends? Would you rather be watching
a television romcom than making small talk with
him? Are you only with him for fear of being
single? If the answer to all these questions is a
yes, then you need to peace out of this
relationship and find a new date. And while we
don't recommend you go on a dating marathon,
it's often important to get out there -especially if
you feel like you're stuck in a limbo. Don't give
up. Your next amazing date might be right
around the corner.
. Date your friend: How often do you think to
yourself, 'he's cute, but he'd rather be a friend'
and quickly zone him out? But your friends can
sometimes make the best dates. We'd, in fact,
go a step ahead to say, think of dating your
already existing friends, or friends of friends.
Someone you are already friends with is likely to
have similar values, and know your background.
Plus, friendship is the foundation for any
relationship, so having that bond established is
half the road driven. Think about it.
. Explore the unexplored: You never know
where you are going to meet the next person
you date, so if you are only looking in one spot
(like that bar where you love to hangout with
your buddies), then you are missing out on
several potential partners. Plenty of couples
have met at a market, movie hall, or even while
sitting across at a library. Love can crop up
anywhere, so get out there and keep your eyes,
ears and heart open.
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